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How To Set Your Ex Up On An \"Alternative\" Dating Site

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For those of you who have known me for a while, you'll be aware of my fondness for alternative adult dating sites...

...not for my personal "satisfaction" (honest!), but for the fantastic revenge opportunities they offer us.

Can you just imagine how horrified your ex will be when they start getting emails and phone calls from other people looking for alternative fun!

Couple this with the fact that your ex won't be able to do anything whatsoever about it, then you'll understand why I enjoy using these sites so much.

Rather than keep this particular tactic to myself, I've decided to share it with you by giving you a step-by-step guide to really screwing [ pun intended ] your ex up.

Step 1 - Create An Email Account

This first step is really important and it's what allows you to post your ex's contact details as genuine, but more about this later on.

Go to or (or similar) and create a free email account in your ex's name. Don't worry - your ex will never know about this account

Once you've done this, you are ready for Step 2.

Step 2 - Register Your Ex At An "Appropriate" Dating Site

Now you've got a fake email account, in your ex's name, then you register your ex at one of the many alternative lifestyle dating sites.

My personal favourites are:

Of course, you can use whichever one you want to - a quick search on Google will show you hundreds of pages.

Now, when you register with these sites,you must register as if you were your ex - but feel free to select as many of the "looking for" options that you want :-)

A few quick tips to improve the success of your profile:

  1. Include photos! If you haven't got any you can use, then go to Google and search their images for pictures of "gay man" or "dyke" or "servant" etc.

  2. Have a really sexy username - "big dick" or "evil bitch" will already be taken. Something like "willing student" or "hurt me please" are much more effective

  3. In the about me box write as much as you can. Even if you think you are gushing, just write. The more you write, the more genuine you will seem

During the registration process, you will be asked to confirm your email address. This is why it is important that you create an email account that only you have access to in step 1.

Once you have confirmed your email address and completed your registration, you can start with step 3.

Step 3 - Get Flirting

Now, depending upon which site you register your ex at, you may have to pay in order to actually talk to other members.

But, by becoming a premium member, you will get a lot more interest from other members and your ex's profile will be listed higher up the rankings.

We are now at the part where the more work you put it, the bigger the revenge payback.

What you have to do is chat, flirt and exchange emails and messages with other members of these sites, acting as if you were your ex (or at least the profile that you've created of your ex).

This is not the time to be prudish, and correspondance on these sites quickly escalates into the downright filthy - lol.

Remember, the people on these sites are looking for sex - pure & simple. And of course, that's what your ex is looking for!!!

As I mentioned earlier, the more work you put in here, the better the payback.

Don't just chat with a couple of people, really work the site - go and prostitute yourself - flirt and get verbally dirty with everyone you can. Build up an online sexual love affair - create some heat.

Personally, I try to get at least 12 "partners" going at the same time, and keep building up the correspondance for at least a month.

While this may seem like hard work, it is sooooo worth it.

When you feel you're ready and you've warmed up lots of members, then it's time to unleash them on your ex.

Step 4 - Getting Your Ex Involved

This is where your hard work pays off and you exploit a fundamental weakness of these dating sites.

In one session, you update your contact email address to that of your ex's.

Remember when I said that when you register you have to confirm your email address? Well, once you've signed up and been a member for at least a month, then you become "trusted", especially if you pay for membership. This means that when you change your contact email address to the email address of your ex, the dating site will not ask you to confirm this email address!!!

Once you've updated your contact details, then it's time to get brave with your online "lovers"

Get chatting with all of them and tell them that you want to take it all to the next stage - phone calls, a meeting in a motel/hotel or a "party" that you are having at "your" house. Share your ex's phone number, email and house address with the online community.

Don't hold back - remember, you've overcome all your shyness, you're gagging for it and want to fulfil your darkest, dirtiest fetishes!!!

Step 5 - Sit Back & Enjoy The Show

If you've done your groundwork, then you can now imagine what's going to happen - dominatrix, transvestites, "water sport" lovers etc will all be contacting your ex as a HOT lead!!!

And when your ex tells them to go away (or something similar), your ex will be met with a torrent of abuse as they've violated the unwritten code of "if you make real world contact, then you must want to go through with it"

At this point, the only thing you've got to do is sit back, laugh and enjoy the rewards of your hard labour!!!

Final Thoughts

Although this revenge tactic involves a lot of work, the devastating effect it has on your ex is never to be underestimated.

I have set well over a hundred people up this way and every time it never fails to shock and offend :-)

If you are worried about being tracked down, then I recommend you use a piece of software that hides your computer's real details when surfing the internet.

Personally, I use Hide My IP software - for more information on this clever piece of software, click here

And just before I sign off, don't be worried about supplying your card details. Data Protection means that your details are not disclosed, especially given the "alternative" nature of these dating sites.

As always, let me know how you get on with this tactic. It's a real favourite of mine and I hope you'll enjoy it as much as I do.

Until the next time


Joani - 2009-01-08 17:46:26

WOW!! This is awesome, i've thought about doing this a couple times before i found this site, but i figured i would get caught. This is good stuff here. Would it work if i use a public library computer?

carol - 2009-01-12 23:50:44

I have always wanted to do this Nick was a Brave man bless his soul! What about me using my debit/cred card and leaving a trail? How can this be done ?
Loved this!
Thanl You

Lyn - 2009-02-03 08:43:30

What about if he checks my ip address.......when I sign up to one of these groups?

Pat - 2009-03-12 18:26:05

You can always purchase one of those "gift" credit cards (visa mastercard) you can usually get them at Walmart drug stores etc. They work just like credit cards (they are pre paid credit cards) and everyone accepts them and they cannot be traced!

nesha brown - 2009-04-10 12:26:33

i need help doing this email m,e at

Chris - 2009-05-15 10:42:56

Did the same and did online applications at legal brothels as well as getting listed on a few escort sites. She changed her phone, email and eventually moved.

oliviamckenna - 2009-07-03 13:10:04

bloody brilliant am going to do this tonight

Alex - 2009-07-03 15:37:36

Genius Nick - pure genius!

Alex - 2009-07-06 11:36:29

This is so sweet, can't wait to do this, you think I can use my ex's real photos though?

Christeen Lambert - 2009-07-22 06:28:41

This is a very nice begining a long lasting assult on every place one can imagine personal and private . if done as publicly as possiable it will produce painfull permernt damage to pschyice and soul with the added bouce of a publicly presser cooked presonality replacement.this plan could be my most pleasurerable life experince. I might even get to take some warm fussys into the here after if this is properally exicuted. PLEASED,very very PLEASED.

Jamie - 2009-10-23 17:05:49

its all great ..but you should do all that from some public place and public computer so the police cant track you back ... yeah sometimes it comes to cousinīs ex did that to her cousin was getting weird msgs and calls and she called the police and they tracked her ex-boyfriend ...

Jenny - 2010-01-09 01:15:03

Thank you! I thought I was truly evil in some of my plans for revenge but this is awesome!

Jessica - 2010-01-20 12:02:19

=] That is the most devious and perfect plan I've ever heard!
I love it!

James - 2010-08-07 23:03:55

Bravo I like this.

annyon - 2010-08-26 14:12:25

This is brilliant.

does any of the team do this for us? ie can I pay one of the members of the revenge team to do this for me without it leading back to me etc? the next question is how much would that cost? lol. ive seen 1 otehr site offering this tactic but v v v expesive lol.

Donna Suzanne - 2010-12-29 10:09:38

Now you can get one of those handy pre-paid credit cards, or better yet a credit card Gift card and be completely secret!!!

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